“There are no problems we cannot solve together, and very few we can solve by ourselves.”
- Lyndon B. Johnson
When I look back on my earliest days as a leader, the times I felt the most isolated and overwhelmed were the times that I thought I had to have all of the answers. And, as it turned out, many of those answers were not as good as they could have been, had I engaged the people around me.
I know that I am not the only leader who has felt the weight of the world on her shoulders, so why do we do this to ourselves? Is it the fault of our hierarchical organizations--ones that put us in positions where we are automatically expected to be the absolute authority figure in our domain? Or is it our fear of losing stature among our people when we admit that we do not have the infallible solution?
We are expected to be an authority, but not an absolute authority. We must be gifted in some area, but not all areas, lest we become the “Jack of all trades, master of none.” You may be brilliant in developing technology, but not strategy. You may have a gift for selling, but not for hiring. That’s okay, because you’ve got the opportunity to wield the ultimate form of authority: sharing your power with others.
“Change” is one of those words that can inspire fear in any person. If “change” is merely the result of “problem-solving,” then why do we fear it? Because most of the problem-solving is done by someone else--we are left holding the bag, trying to implement a solution (that we don’t own) to a problem that we didn’t know was a problem in the first place. Most change feels forced, as we react to new structures and try to find a new comfort zone where our actions yield predictable results.
My challenge to you: make life easier for you and your team by engaging them in solving the team’s problems. It will be a freeing experience when you admit to yourself that you don’t have the solution. And it will be a freeing experience for your team when they are helping to shape the solutions that will eventually be tomorrow’s “change.”
Before engaging your team in this process, you will need to have answered these two questions:
1. “What is the most basic definition of the problem?”
You don’t want to get too detailed in this statement. In order to ensure that you’ve hit the core of the problem, state the problem as you see it (“We need to ______”) and then go a little deeper (“so that _________”). The second blank is the more basic form of the problem at hand.
Ex: “We need to reorganize our staff so that we can sell more services.” The question to pose to your team is not, “How do we reorganize our staff?” but rather, “How can we sell more services?” Reorganization might be one way to solve that problem, but not the most effective or efficient way.
Remember: the definition you come up with must be within the scope of your authority, so that you can ensure that you and your team will be focused on actions that are in your control.
2. “What must be the end result?”
Be as specific as possible here, quantifying as many aspects of the end result as you can. Your answer to this question will help your team know your expectations, prioritize possible solutions in terms of their likelihood of success, and measure their progress when implementing their solutions.
The solutions they come up with may not be perfect, and you may need to use some of that authority of yours to shift their course. This process is not easy, but it is a simple way to open communication, build trust, and break down the barriers between “us” and “them.”
Here’s to the people who make our loads a little lighter...Cheers!
